not 2 be like that but ashley watched the failures of her father and her family and it shaped her into who she is ,  and when she joined the alliance she was determined to break that williams curse , because they were worth more than that in her mind ,  and she cant let that be their legacy ,  but she still ended up internalizing the fact that her family was blacklisted as “i’m not good enough” and her drive to make herself Good Enough for the alliance would’ve probably killed her if not for everything that happened w/ saren and the geth